I need someone who can take care of me

Or at least do what they can to show that I’m actually important to you and will do anything to make sure my happiness is continuous.
I’m tired of feeling like his mother and Im tired of being the responsible decision making one and making sacrifices to ensure his well-being in the relationship and setting mine aside. I’m just so tired of the revolving problems. Will you ever get it? Or is it just a lost cause? Maybe I should let go..
But I don’t want to :(